| Most rules in the dating game will tell you to follow | | | | The only way to make attractive singles out of our |
| some techniques which usually leave everything to | | | | ordinary selves is to be ourselves as much as possible. |
| chance. Playing hard to get, flattering, flirting and | | | | This will attract the kind of people who are like who |
| scheming might work but an expert in the dating game | | | | we truly are. Being yourself gives you freedom since |
| thinks otherwise. Attractive singles usually have a | | | | you do not have to remember to pretend. A partner |
| strong self-sense which is developed with time. Singles | | | | who loves you for who you are is the best freedom |
| who are frustrated and looking for a perfect match do | | | | you can ever get. The way forward is to use a |
| not find each other. Men and women moan and say | | | | statistical mass logic which is the idea behind blind |
| that there are no available singles and yet they are to | | | | dates, speed dating, matchmaking services and use of |
| blame for their lack. The failure in this case is caused | | | | personal ads. It involves seeking large gatherings |
| by the culture model which portrays love seeking as a | | | | where you can get your date. You can imagine |
| romance pursuit where predation and hunting is a | | | | yourself as the bait and wait for someone to stray |
| major goal. Capturing the predator through a trick is | | | | from the gathering. Use all the wit you can afford and |
| what is perceived as winning in the dating game. | | | | you will be on your way to success. |